Now, as a general rule you should go to the right kind of cam girl for the show that you want to get. If you want to have a kinky cam show there are enough kinksters in the world for you to get that. But sometimes you know that a cam girl would be perfect for your kink and you just can’t stop thinking about it and her. You need to see it, and you’d be paying, so what’s the problem? If your kink isn’t banned under the site’s rules then the only thing holding her back is the fact that she doesn’t really want to. While a review of sex cam sites shows that a lot of cam girls are pretty firm about their kinks, they’re not actually set in stone. Tons of cam models on iFriends.com realized that there really wasn’t anything so wrong with a kink that they wouldn’t do once they actually tried it. So how can you make your own cam girl get over herself and out of her comfort zone? There are five easy steps to getting your cam girl to finally try that kink you’ve been begging for. It’s a bit tricky and requires patience, so only do it if you’re already seeing a cam girl regularly. If you don’t have any emotional currency built up with this cam girl before now, it’s not going to last for you. You have to really be committed to it and her in order for this to really work. Commit yourself to chat with hot cam models on one of the most popular sex cam site Tell your girl that you want to see live intercourse and if you are on a real cam site, she’ll fulfil your request
Bring up the Kink and Let It Go
“You request for a kink and she’ll fulfil it”
The first step is to bring up your kink and let her shoot you down. Let’s say that you really want your cam girl to talk dirty to you. Lots of swearing, lots of vulgar language, and it just isn’t her thing. As kinks go this is pretty mild, and there’s not many cam girls who would refuse to do it. That’s why it works for this example; it lets you see that you have to believe that she should do it. You should ask for it with confidence, expecting her to do it even though you know that she won’t. If you’ve already asked her for this very recently then you should wait at least a couple of weeks before you ask again. This way you can claim that you forgot that unlike every other cam model on iFriends.com she’s just not going to do this one particular thing for you.
When she tells you for the first time (or reminds you that she’s already told you) that she doesn’t do this kink is when you’re going to want to back off. You don’t want to come across as a jerk here. You have to get her to do it without looking like you’re getting her to do anything. It has to seem like it’s her idea. So when she tells you that she’s not going to do that you have to smile and nod and say that it’s no problem at all. You can go to someone else for this one little kink, it’s no big deal. Then don’t bring it up again for a little while. This is a long game. You might be tempted to move too fast, but if you do that it will be obvious that you’re trying to manipulate her. Cam girls might be a special breed of woman, but they do still react the same way a normal woman would be being obviously manipulated: they don’t like it. They’re not a fan.
Mention Another Cam Girl Who Does It
“Make her feel jealous by parsing other girls”
Once enough time has gone by you can move on to the next step. A couple weeks should be enough. Make sure that you’re reviewing cam sex sites at all times just so you can brush up on the kink that you want her to do. Make sure that you know how much the going rate is, and how much more she could make doing this kink than she does regularly. After you’ve done your homework and she’s had a little time to forget that you asked her for this, bring it up in chat. Instead of just asking for her to do something for you, bring up this other cam girl whom you know does the kink you want. Bring it up like gossip in a group chat. Mention that she makes a good wage off of that sort of thing, and shrug about it.
The important thing for you to do is to mention specific details. Mention a cam girl by screen name whom you know does this. Mention how much she makes. Mention in general that you’re impressed with her, and that you like that she’s popular. Leave it at that, but you need to have all those elements. What you’re doing is planting the seeds of jealousy. Those are the things that will keep this cam girl thinking about what you’ve said for weeks to come.
Bring in Men Who Also Enjoy Your Kink
“Invite other users so that she can make more money”
If you can get in touch with other guys who like your kink then this is the time to do it. Bring them in and have them ask for it over and over. Have them talk about the cam girls who do that, and how she’d be perfect for it. Just make sure that she doesn’t associate them with you. This is about showing her that there’s a real market for it. There are tons of kinks with only a handful of followers on the average cam site. You need to prove that adding this kink to her list of skills would bring in more than enough money to justify it. Reviews of sex cam kink sites will help you figure out where you should go to find people who like this kink and might be willing to help you.
If you really don’t have anyone online who will help you with this then you might have to take matters into your own hands. Anon accounts can be used to parrot your views. Don’t be suspicious about it. Use a smartphone or other laptop computer to cam even when you’re not usually on. This will let her know that it’s not you. Vary your spelling and punctuation as much as possible without being ridiculous, and try to avoid using the same phrases over and over.
Buy Her the Basic Equipment
“Buy her a butt plug to make the kink more interesting”
If she doesn’t have the equipment to do the kink but you know that she’s softening to the idea, tell her that it would mean a lot to you to know that she just has the things she needs to do it. Then buy her the starting equipment. Of course, this is where the earlier example fails; there really isn’t any equipment for dirty talk. Still, you could buy her her first butt plug or costume piece. It doesn’t have to be the nicest, it just has to be something.
Keep Bringing It Up
“Now it’s my time to show him what I got”
Once you’ve gotten all of that set up all you have to do is not let it die. Keep stoking the fire at intervals; encourage her jealousy of other cam girls, make sure she has what she needs, and have people keep asking for it. She’ll totally crack eventually from the pressure and give you the best show you’ve seen.